The man who makes a success of an important venture never wails for the crowd. He strikes out for himself. It takes nerve, it takes a great lot of grit; but the man that succeeds has both. Anyone can fail. The public admires the man who has enough confidence in himself to take a chance. These chances are the main things after all. The man who tries to succeed must expect to be criticized. Nothing important was ever done but the greater number consulted previously doubted the possibility. Success is the accomplishment of that which most people think can't be done.
C. V. White
Definitely something should happen, there is this guy who used to say go to hell. Wow! how hot is hell? , hell is hot , a thermodynamics professor by the way: “Now, we look at the rate of change of the volume in Hell because Boyle's Law states that in order for the temperature and pressure in Hell to stay the same, the volume of Hell has to expand as souls are added”.
but i hope i'll be like this guy who asked a permission to write his friend a blaming letter,listen to what he said then:And yet on coming to the end, i can not call u my friend now; but some people are amazing how can you call him a friend in hell !!
We are always occupied by more and lot of things in our entire lives, the boom gate of technology seemed to have opened various ways for setting people free, release their socio,emotional and psychological stress-hence provide entertainment in the majority of technological wizards. However we might also not understand better the consequences which sometimes go unnoticed in our psycho-life span. I remember there is one cartoon in Baron et.al, the young man is asked by the computer that: “you have been online for almost a year now, would you like to log out” -surprisingly, there were two options just like when you are saving a word page. It pops out two simple suggestions, a YES and a NO. Guess what he refused and stayed online. Internet, internet, what a wonderful world in just few seconds…. Am I an addict? I guess so, but let’s not tell the psycho-analyzers,,, they’ll definitely rush unto my brains.
Well, I am the founder and servant of this site. My whole life span was addicted to hahaha.co.za …. I ended up laughing loud in class during presentations and fortunate enough they didn’t notice, I guess. That week we’ve been doing or learning about different kinds of disruptive behaviors, may be they thought I was a psycho-path. The way I feel about the whole internet thing makes my blood ring twice before the next internet visit, my feelings did influence my thoughts that day. My thoughts, maybe they also influenced my feelings and behavior.
I have one boring and interesting story, here in my pocket, just here, oh there it is… “Couples who have positive illusions about each other maintained their feelings of love and closeness than others” Baron et.al. That it, positive illusion? (If Tim Modise<SA fm>) was here he would say lets analyze that. Positive illusion to me, it just mean positive false perception, hey wait a minute-let me hold my horses. I said false perception about others; partners who are having false perception about one another are likely to survive in their relationships. Are you hooked up! Is it true, it would just mean that lot of lasting relationships are surviving on positive illusi… (complete).
And self esteemed, boosting yourself about what you have. Do you remember the preacher the last few Sundays( if you once bounce at church sometimes), he used to preach about having self esteem, self ego, and self, self, self. On the contrary, don’t boost yourself because God will not tolerate you. I like these guys, Baron again- he says “self esteem is often associated with feelings of superiority which might need to be defended when the individual pride Is threatened…. I was just saying having a self esteem is deadly sometimes/ for sure I’ll have a bit.
But having a bit is also spiking, one of my fully admired friend at a primary level was asked to do an essay or sing about himself… he started: Myself, myself name is David, myself I live at Mpumalanga province, myself I like school, just imagine- a teachers’ pet by the way.
Let me present myself, iam a third year social work student at the North West University( Mafikeng campus). Attended a primary school at Maphakama(Kabokweni) and finished my higher primary at Mdumiseni(White Hazy). I only studied in one secondary school by the way, in contrary to others; at khanyisani secondary school. Before I come go and enroll at a varsity level, I first decided to taste the working environment for five consecutive years, it was that bad.
My ‘A’ grade security certificate, armed response, instructor and fire arm certificates kicked me to try my luck when finally was employed at one of biggest Cash in Transit companies( Im not advertising it ok!), it however created a barrier after some years when I was missed so many times with the trigger- survival of the fittest. I prayed a lot and finally my prayers got me abroad to presume a year international bible certificate which was unfortunately not used. It was replaced by the idea of going back to school, I would have been a preacher now, I guess. You sinners, you liars, and you pathological liars, rapist….!!!, you are all going to “hell” and you are “full of shit”.
That guy, once he was about to finish the whole preaching session, a woman decided to drop her tears- she was sitting in front by the way. After realizing that he just went back to my concept of self esteem, he preached louder until it rained. He called all those who want to be saved, people go in front but the woman didn’t. Those who want to get jobs, healed, saved their marriages, they responded but she didn’t. He was so confused now which group to call, the tears were heavily falling…. now, plan B. he called all those who have all problems of life, no one responded, blushing his long beard…: what’s your problem old woman!!!, he asked. The woman was so damn shy to say it, finally she said:”can I say it”…. The whole church was quite now, “yes, no matter what kind of a problem, God is listening” said the preacher. She stood up facing him in the eyes( ices ), I was cheating one day when my husband was still there, he caught me with that guy in action, just imagine, in the move. The guy after realizing that something was beating him, he boxed my husband and he decided to divorce me. When the magistrate asked him the rationale behind that, he answered: she cheats with boxers, pointing his blue eyes. The preacher said, then why are you crying, wasn’t it you fault?. Yes, I guess, but I just missed him. The preacher: “you missed your husband”. No, that boxer, you just told me shit now when you were preaching, saying all those who cheats are going to burn in hell. You can imagine how angry was the preacher, don’t go far click here to see his friend preaching live (note: some cellphone users will not be able to see this video)
I forgotten where I was, I was browsing this Girlfriend thing, unfortunately she never showed up. In scientific terms, I was cognitive overloaded (busy) with the story of the boxer and preacher, or the gangsters that pulled the trigger on me when I was at CIT( cash in transit). You can see how dramatic the heist was but this was even worse.
Most people are finding it difficult or failing to present themselves nowadays in social reality(according to social-psychology researchers) due to lack of presentation skills which are often caused by the social networks or other reasons. You remember well the last time you logged on the internet, there were adverts about all kinds of “meet a new lover online, start dating online, find your partner now online” to mention but a few. Be aware, most social researchers has found that social networks helps to maintain an unnecessary skill for meeting people in the real world, you always prefer on liners; trust me you meet them one bad day.
Chatting online is nice because no one will know that you are a dog.
Oh, here comes this bustard again (Question: Who is a gynecologist?
Answer: He is the only fool on the earth who looks for problems in a place where most people find pleasure!), oh, my God!!! he’s just here outside my door…. On my way to check her, I’m comin’….
